Best Laid Plans

No crafting content in this, unless you count gardening as crafting.

At the beginning of April I asked the utilities companies to come out and mark where I can and cannot use a rototiller so that I can turn my yard into a natural garden. Then I had 2 funerals to attend, work picked up, my mood plummeted, and I had a bad invasion of flies. They filled up 2 long fly strips as well as a Zevo pad, and that is after Orkin came. The temperatures have also been fluctuating between 80-100, which for my area is very hot. All of that to say that my lawn has not gotten the attention that it should probably have.

I do have a couple of native plants that have decided to grow in my front yard, of course they are leggy and so look like weeds. There was a couple of days near garbage pickup when I had some of my shelving units out for anyone to pick up or to be recycled. This was when the city decided to respond to a complaint about my yard. I actually do not blame whomever reported me, the yard really does look a mess right now. There was not a date filled in for when I need to have it fixed up, only that I need to tell the inspector when I am done. At present I have purchased a cultivator online and it should arrive Monday. Since I am not working next weekend I will have time to get my yard completely dug up so I can begin to reseed it the way I would like it to be.

This is likely not what the person complaining had intended, however it will ensure that there cannot be an complaints of my grass being too long, lol. After the grass has been dug up with the cultivator I intend to lay down clover seed until Fall arrives. In the fall I plan to plant spring blooming bulbs, in the meantime there are apparently a few vegetables that thrive in the heat so I may be planting some squash and the like.

There is someone arriving at my home early tomorrow morning to scrub down my kitchen floor, and clean around the appliances, which involves moving the appliances. After this is done I will feel much better about ensuring that my home is as clean as I can get it. There is a wide swath of selling off items that I do not use or no longer need, so that is helping my ‘decluttering’ quite a bit as well.

Until next time please remember to Live Life a Little More Abstract!

Time Flies

I did not realize that it had been 7 years since I saw my dad’s cousins for Maryland Sheep & Wool. I also did not realize that it had been about 20 years since I saw some of my cousins. Time flies so quickly and all too often we think that we will have another day, another week, another year to see someone, however that is not always the case. I hate that it takes tragedy for me to find time to see some of my family. I think that this year is meant to open my eyes to possibilities, chances lost, and steps that I can take to change things. I’m bad at small talk, even with family, however I think this is well worth taking the time to work on.

Talk about time flying, I wrote the above paragraph last week when I had just returned from my Uncles funeral. I did not realize how much this was going to effect me, which seems stupid to say. I do not recommend having two funerals within two months, it really takes a toll even if you do not feel that you were especially close to those involved, though I loved them and still do they were always periphery for me. Before this post was started last week I had a burst of energy and I was making progress on projects, this was probably so I did not have to think about anything. In the past week my progress has come to a halt. Over the weekend I decided to give myself the opportunity to play while working on a few things that I needed to get done around the house.

Most of what I worked on were embroidered quilt blocks that I hope to use a quilt as you go method to put together as a completed quilt. I did play around with adding beads to a bracelet, and I hate how that turned out, so I will need to try again.

The final thing that I am playing around with in my mind is doing some wholesale purchasing from some smaller creators that have awesome materials I would like to share with more people. I believe that I would put some on my storefront and then also do one or two craft shows this fall.

Until next time remember to Live Life A Little More Abstract!

Progressing

I love how my Fey piece is turning out. The wings are tulle, the crown is made from beads that the person is for had purchased. I think I’ll add some red thread to the other side to signify their pain and death, then bind it.

You’re getting to know me and side-quests, these keyrings are my current side quest. They are faux cork with specialty ribbons as the loop. I love how they have turned out. At present they are being glued together then I’ll top stitch around the sides. I’m going to see if my sister wants one of the sparkly rainbow ones, or if I’ll put them all on my shop.

I am finishing up the three memorial pieces, rinsed off the top stabilizer this morning so I’m waiting for the other two to dry so I can do the fold over binding. I’m also using a tiny bit of fabric glue to ensure that the stitches on back will not destabilize, then I’ll whip stitch a couple of jump rings so that they can be used as wall hangings.

I am going to be seeing a lot of my family on Tuesday that I have not seen in years, if not decades. I have no idea how this is going to go. One of my relatives has offered me a place to sleep on the way there if I want to start out Monday night. Another has offered that I can stay with her and her daughters so I don’t have to leave immediately after on Tuesday. So I think I will head out early Tuesday morning the way I originally planned but then stay with my Cousin, I let her know I have to head out at 6am, so that should be okay.

I also randomly decided that I was going to sew a mask and a reversible hat for myself. I purchased nose pieces for masks when they were on clearance, so think that will be good for me this summer. The hat is more because I realized that with my thin hair my scalp can get sunburned easily and I need to prevent that.

I only have two more flowers and two more branches to hand sew before I can start embroidering the commissioned quilt again. All in all I have had a very productive week so far. I’m proud that I have gotten quite a bit of the items that I wanted to do complete. There are other things that I really do need to get working on, putting things onto my Etsy site, seeing about getting a couple of quick makes to set up an in person craft booth sometimes this summer, and so much more. At present the weather is going to be really hot and then thunderstorms so I don’t think I’ll be doing too much outside…though I did finally get my lawn back under control.

Things could be so much worse, I have no real room to complain. Given that until next time I hope that you Live Life a Little More Abstract!

Side-Questing

The world is full of amazing opportunities for crafts and self expression. Sometimes there are so many opportunities I start five things at once…okay, often I start five things at once. I have made some progress on my aunt’s quilt, right now I am using clear thread to ensure that her applique is solid on the first set of flowers. I think that the center looks good, I’ll see if I can ask my cousin when I see her at the Funeral.

I am trying to find a pattern with Celtic meaning and a lovely phrase to commemorate my Uncle that passed, I’ll make three (one for each of his kids and one for his widow…maybe one for his ex?). Mostly that is adding the elements for the design and getting them stitched out.

My library is kicking off their summer reading program in two weeks and I found out last week that we will be having ‘spirit days’ that week. I will not be at work for two of them, however I will be at the library to volunteer at a booth for one of the guilds I belong to. This means that I need at least ideas, if not projects, for each of the other five days. One of them is for a piece of art or inspiration by an artist. I am currently working on an applique design for a t-shirt I purchased. Hopefully that turns out.

I am still low-key working on my Fey piece, it is currently percolating in the back of my mind as I sort through my fabrics, tulle, lace, etc.

There have been some great sales on embroidery patterns, I sort of need to lay off of purchasing those until I have made some products and sales.

In addition to all of that I have started playing around with Notion as a way to keep my projects organized and my inventory/purchases recorded. All of this is on top of my work stuff, a class I’m teaching this weekend, the funeral, and preparing for summer reading. I’ve bitten off a lot to chew, I hope I can keep up with it.

I did take time one morning before work for an artists date to the beach. Even though it means waking up super early I love going to the beach for sunrise, I got a great photo of the moon before it set.

Remember to live life A Little More Abstract!

Messing With a New (to me) Technique

For a couple of years now I have been seeing layered paper creations, the layers add depth and the paper makes them easy to cut out using something like a Cricut. Then, right before H&H Americas I saw that Snuggly Monkey was selling patterns for felt creations, some where animals with beautiful layers, while others were Hobbit Doors. I fell in love and picked up two patterns and some felt. I was lucky enough to encounter more felt when I stopped at a JoAnns on my way to H&H. I tried to cut one set out, and found the pieces small and fiddly. This is entirely a me thing, with my larger fingers I’m not great at tiny detail work. I hope to get back to it in the near future. This did get me wondering how people managed to create the separate layers however. I could see creating several copies of an image, getting an Xacto knife to cut out different elements for the layers and working with them from there hoping that you did it correctly and things would work together. Then a colleague of mine decided that they were going to go through our filing cabinet of older office supplies and dropped off some Carbon Paper to see if I can do anything with them.

I believe that I wrote earlier about making some reverse applique work and an art quilt, I plan on using some inspiration images to get different elements to create a whole. Well as I was looking for inspiration, something struck me. I can use a printout of an inspiration image and then use the carbon paper and a mechanical pencil, without lead, to trace the elements I would like in each layer. This also allows me to embellish them and make notes to myself. I did find out that the carbon does not rub off of fabric, so the Fey image I traced on white quilting cotton is not going anywhere, but I can use that to my advantage to make sure it is completely covered. Fortunately, the carbon does not ‘bleed’ through the weave either. I realize that this is just the very first step on my journey with these new creations, however I am very excited to see where it might go. Hopefully I can create a small sample soon. If I plan on doing this out of quilting cotton I will need to make sure that I properly applique the edges.

Until Next Time Remember to Live Life a Little More Abstract!

Memorial Project

Due to my Irish heritage I have always been drawn in by the idea and images of they Fey, or Fair Folk. At H&H Americas I expressed an idea that had been percolating in the back of my mind for quite some time, a multi-media textile art piece that features a dark Fey. I bought some silk fabric samples and spun some black silk thread.

Two weeks ago I received a call from my cousin. (Since I’m not using names and my Dad had 10 siblings this is a bit confusing, the two cousins are not from the same immediate family, their Mothers are Sisters to my Dad who is not with us.) She told me that our other cousins daughter, who was living with her parents, had decided to take her own life. This was devastating. I did not have the opportunity to get to know her much in life, we had only seen each other a few times and she was not outwardly expressive…I would say shy except that I think that this was a conditioned response to years of mental abuse. My Aunt was the one to find her. This was horrible, my cousin called me and I told her that I could be there 6 hours from then. She called on Sunday and I cancelled the spinning class I was supposed to teach and arrived Thursday for the Saturday funeral.

It was both horrible and lovely. I had a chance to see family I had not in a while, I helped create 4 posters…okay I cut some of the white off of the edges of printed pictures, and generally we kept busy. I was an ear for my cousin, a shoulder for her daughters, and a buffer for her mom and dad. My other cousin, the father, had been in town all week. He was mourning in his own way…not talking with anyone, communicating through text and his girlfriend, hanging up on my cousin…you know. She finally told him to ‘Grow up’ and then the whole family was dis-invited from the funeral. Her sister managed to smooth things over to the point that my cousin was the only one not invited, so I stayed with her and her husband, daughters, and a couple of other family members that decided to stay. I spent Sunday with my cousin and headed back that night, which was hard for her older daughter who had been sullen all day. I had to explain that my social battery was drained (I had just been to see them 4 weeks ago then H&H, then COVID, now this) and that I did not want to subject them to the bad mood I could feel coming on. I drove home, taking two breaks to nap for 2 hours at a time, arriving home at 5 am after leaving at 8:30pm.

Last night I had inspiration, that will be explained in a post that is coming out later this week (I superseded it with this post for reasons I will explain soon), and began on a sample or small scale version of my Fey.

The young lady that decided her life was not worth living had a small collection of beads, she enjoyed arts and crafts, that my cousin gifted me. I decided to incorporate those into this memorial project, you can see one bead and sequin where their eye is going to be. I was pleased to get a start on this project, I had all sorts of ideas running through my head, I planned on spending this weekend, after work, between machine embroidering on my (other) aunt’s quilt, draping different fabrics and exploring what colors and textures I want to bring to this piece.

This morning as I was washing up and getting dressed for work I received a phone call. I did not have the number saved, that has been rectified, however I knew that I had family in that area so I picked up. It was my Aunt whose quilt I am working on…one of her brothers (my uncle) passed away last night. I think I was in shock and forgot to ask if there was anything I could do. Admittedly I was not very close to my Uncle, however I loved him and I love his 2 children, my cousins. I cannot cancel another class for the same guild. My finances are stretched thin, so I think a card is going to be all that I can send, maybe a memorial mini quilt or something…Oh, I’ll embroider some good Irish sayings on a piece for each, they might like that.

What keeps running through my mind is that these things come in threes. I know it is an old superstition, however, that does not make it wrong. I am waiting to talk with my sister so we can figure out what to do. Into every life a little rain must fall, rest in the loving embrace of the family that came before you.

Life Life a Little More Abstract.

Summer (Crafting) Challenges

Each summer seems to go by faster and faster as they years progress. This year I am going to focus on making sure that I have Fun and accomplish some of my crafty tasks that I would like to do. Part of having fun is making sure that I go on what Julia Cameron calls ‘Artist Dates’ each week. Yesterday I went to the beach to collect pretty rocks. I discovered that my water shoes rub on my bunions, it’s still foot numbingly cold in the water, and that I really enjoy listening to the waves crash against the shore. I am considering making some kind of quilt to memorialize this summer of adventure (hopefully). If you are looking for some kind of a challenge this summer there are plenty of opportunities.

I am not sponsored by any of these organizations, however these are a few that I have discovered.

Tour De Fleece is going to occur this July while the Tour De France is happening. The facebook group can be found here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/447931545237090/ and there are plenty of fiber sellers that can provide you with their kits if you google Tour De Fleece. I know this as a spinning event, however you could easily do any kind of fiber craft.

Similar to this a Sewist found out about Tour De Fleece and decided that they wanted to do a Tour De Fabric: https://www.quiltnlearn.com/quiltalongs

If you don’t like those parameters there always seem to be various Crochet alongs, knit alongs, quilt alongs, sew alongs, etc. Perhaps you want to go to X number of retreats this summer (1 is a number), or you want to challenge yourself to creating/finishing a piece this summer. Whatever your challenge I hope that you are able to make progress toward getting it done.

As a ‘Photo Tax’ I have made progress…okay I started…quilting a quilt top for a family member. She made the top and asked me to do the quilting. I almost have the center motif done, hopefully she likes it when I am done.

Live Life a Little more Abstract

Birthday Freebies

This is completely at odds with my previous post and doesn’t have a lot to do with crafting, though because I’m me there are some crafting freebies and birthday promotions included.

First, I sign up for a lot of emails and promotional emails because I don’t mind throwing those that do not apply to me in the garbage and this also gives me a feeling that I am not missing out on anything. I know that these can stress some people out so this might not be the right path for everyone.

If you don’t mind this path then I’ll try to break these down by sections, the first is makeup. I’m not really a makeup girlie, however there are a few birthday promotions that I have signed up for. Ulta and Sephora give you something free for your birthday month. I’m not sure what they are this year since I have not bothered to pick them up, you can get them in store or online with an order. Bath and Body Works also gives you a free item up to $10 if you make a purchase.

Food is going to be the next step, I’m a very big food person as well as a big freebie person in case you could not tell. If you are in a region where you have a Tim Hortons you get a free reward item for about 2 days before your birthday as well as on your birthday, this is redeemable only once but you do have the 3 days to redeem it. This year I got a ham and swiss sandwich for free, it was delicious. Panera has a reward, though that might only be if you are in their sips club which I am still in a promotional period for. I get a free bakery treat within a week of my birthday as well as a $1 bagel each day for the week of my birthday. Normally the bagels are $2 and for the price you can get it sliced in half, toasted, and with butter. These bagels are easily a meal on their own so I look forward to taking advantage of this. Dairy Queen is offering me a free medium sundae, dipped cone, or shake starting on my birthday and going for about 3 days to redeem. GFuel gave me 15 XP points which is good, their lowest reward starts at 100 XP, which is 3 fuel sticks for water bottles. Bones Coffee sent me 500 points which is enough for a $5 giftcard on their website. I had forgotten about this company so it turns out I have enough points to get a K-Cup sampler to bring in to work since we have a Keurig at work. I am going to get a free item from the McDonalds menu, I just have to figure out what their most expensive thing is, lol.

Craft, Hipstrings gave me 200 points toward a gift card, their minimum to redeem is 500 points. Funny enough I find that this is a great way to remind myself of companies that I used to purchase from but have forgotten about, I actually have enough points for $10 off of a Hipstrings purchase so I need to decide what I would like to get! What fun! Missouri Star Quilt Company gave me a coupon for $15 off of a $60 purchase anytime this month. Bloom Daily Planners is offering me a free set of stickers up to $10 with any other purchase. Create Room Co has given me 500 points toward a… well, I’m having trouble figuring that out. Their furniture is aspirational at this point in my life so I have made due with Ikea (if you want me to tell you my Ikea picks please let me know). Knitpicks sent me a 15% coupon off of my next order. Gist yarn sent me $10 off of my next order of $50+. Brooklyn Haberdashery sent me enough points for a $10 gift card off of my next purchase of $60 or more. Ranger Ink gave me $10 off of a purchase of $50 or more for 24 hours. Cricut offered me a 20% off coupon plus free shipping.

I think that this is about the end of the birthday promotions and freebies I have recieved thus far. If there are any more I will edit this post. This is a good way for me to end this difficult month, so if you have the bandwidth to deal with promotional emails then this might be an uplifting experience for you. Until next time remember to Live Life a Little More Abstract.

Blindsided

Sometimes life happens and you see it coming from a mile away, more often you will never see it coming. The first important thing in this short, devastating tale, is that my dad was 1 of 11 children and I love all of my cousins we are a very supportive family. One of my cousins had a daughter, very long and heart breaking story, but she graduated from high-school while living with an aunt in Alaska (not her grand-parent). She decided that she wanted to come back to the lower 48 and live close to her dad’s immediate family (and far away from him) so one of my aunt and uncles decided to welcome her into their home and lives (not her grand-parents).

She was finding her footing, trying out different jobs, figuring out what she wanted to do with her life and generally just getting used to a supportive environment. She had just completed her entrance exams to community college, and well, given the past tense I assume you can guess what happened.

She was caught in a fight between her father’s beliefs that therapy, medication, and mental health concerns were not real, and her family, my aunt and uncle and cousins that she was living with, telling her that they all go to therapy and take any medications needed to keep them healthy. So instead of teaching a how to spin yarn class this weekend I will be attending a funeral. It is so tragic and senseless. I can tell myself that even if she had gotten on anti-depressants that likely would have triggered at least an attempt, but that is not really helping me. Everyone in my work and personal life is being very supportive and I am trying to be supportive for the family members that lived with her.

So my May has been a series of dramatic ups and downs. Going to H&H Americas, getting COVID. Getting my home finally cleaned up so I can get started on creative projects, going to a Funeral. I am certainly hoping that this is not an indication of how summer is going to go.

Remember to Live Life a Little More Abstract, and seek out mental health counseling. It is a sign of strength to admit that you need help and weakness to pretend that everything is perfect.